I think conventional psychology and self-help materials get this wrong… Personally, I believe mood is the most important part of relationships, and NOT communication, or social techniques etc. Think about it… when you’re in a good mood you communicate better, not the other way around. You can hone up on your communication skills all you want, and even follow them to the letter… but without the proper mood, things probably won’t work as you hope. Your opinion?

You’re right. I think being able to regulate one’s own emotional states rather than expecting another to take care of our emotions positively influences mood (instead of blaming and becoming hysterical, we can remain relatively calm), and that positively affects our reactions to the other person.

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My son is failing second grade… I don’t want him to think this is acceptable. In a way I’m not sure if it is his fault?

Go sit in on his class for a few days, and see what is going on. Also, do you help him at home with the things he’s having trouble with, or is it a discipline problem? Have you talked to his teacher? Sounds like you are going to have to check it out for yourself, because there are so many possible reasons.

What do you think is the single most important communication skill for maintaining or increasing the intimacy of a relationship? What do you think is the most frequently made mistake in relationship communication?

Being able to express your emotions. Holding back is the biggest mistake made in r.ship comm. Must be true to your heart. Life is too short to play games!!!

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