I have been in relationship going on 12 years. I’m not married and have 3 kids by this guy. We barely have any communication, and we surely can’t agree on anything without having an argument. Is there any advice anyone can give me to help and save my relationship?
Try counseling…otherwise, it may be time to move on.
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Try counseling…otherwise, it may be time to move on.
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Tell him then that we need to talk but I don’t want any scream and yelling at each other and see if the both of you could work things out that way and see if you can go to therepy may be once a week
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well it seems like a business arrangement. not personal at all. that’s a horrible way to live. especially if you all planned to have kids. and y’all are staying together for that reason. its been that way (arguing) for so long i doubt there will be any permanent change. Unless you change the situation
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2 hard heads ,no give and take,can’t agree throw one rock north and the other rock south.
or grow up and perform a cranial extraction.
gee,i bet all over stipid things got to make a big deal out of things.
give and take ,care,love,respect for each other.
play ur stupid games i want things my way,get a life,oh u got one but like to games with it,grew up.
coffee is ready
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You need to be able to talk to each other.Communication is the key in a relationship.You need to talk calmly and quietly.Yelling and hollering will get you nowhere.Both of you have to be able to get your feelings out into the open.
After 12 years and 3 children,I suggest counselling as a couple.That’s a lot of time invested in each other to just be ready to give up.If you care about each other,then it’s worth fighting for and working at.For your children’s sake also.I’m sure they want both their mom and their dad.Separation is so very hard on little children. It can sometimes do great damage to them.
If he won’t go to counselling with you,then go on your own.At least that way,you’ve done your part and will have tried.
Good luck.
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Try an outsider`s help like counselling, or try to spend quality time alone to talk, if you are arguing there is probably stress there, too along with your difficulties. You say that you want to save your relationship so maybe expert advice and guidance could be a really good thing for the two of you. You may also be struck in a rut with your behaviour`s too which is hard for each individual to see and acknowledge. All the best with it.
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